Have you noticed those couples that have been together for a long time and look like they are still dating?
What is their secret?
In this video episode I take you to the “heart of Italy,” Tuscany, to talk about pleasure and long-lasting romance.
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It’s very windy at the top of a hill town near Sienna, fading the audio of my voice and replacing it with the sound of wind, so you will find more about what I said about the porcupines below.
If you like the video, share it among your friends, and most importantly, with your other half. : )
PORCUPINES MATING SIGNIFICANCE (Difficult to hear part of the video):
The male faces a difficult dilemma compared to human males for mating. If he mounts the female he may hurt himself with the quills. He goes through several steps, such as nose and face rubbing for a very long time, to seduce her and “relax” her so she can bring down her quills.
The face rubbing is the same need we have for emotional connection. Jumping right in without being connected, can deteriorate or stale a marriage. Making love, maybe less often and less exciting. The quills can be painful for a porcupine, just as separation or divorce can be painful for us.
Take this analogy and apply it in your relationship. Providing time and the simple tips I gave in the video will not only enrich your relationship, but satisfy you and your partner, just as if you were still on your honeymoon.
