Are you done with “how to” books and advice that doesn’t help?
Do you want a competent, successful relationship coach and expert that will personally guide you step-by-step during your specific conflict that will actually work and not make things worse?
Are you afraid your partner will be unsupportive and dismissive, or will continue to be? Are you afraid trust will be difficult to rebuild and months, even years, go by without feeling your partner’s full commitment, admiration, appreciation, acceptance and respect?
Then you may benefit from a private coaching with yours truly!
That’s why we’d like to invite you and/or your partner to a private coaching call(s).
I myself needed to feel closer to my husband and wanted the avoidance to stop, or temporary solutions that just put a band-aid to a wound that needed stitches.
We had our own issues, and when we finally agreed to get help, we ended up in the wrong hands and things got worse.
Somehow we miraculously found a therapist and coaches to help us. Just as you have miraculously come upon this page.
After working on our marriage, we went back to school and volunteered in coaching couples in classes.
We never thought our marriage could reach this level of peace, romance, and friendship.
My husband entered our marriage when “feelings” was a foreign word to him. Now he is one of the best Relationship Experts I know (trust me, we’ve met quite a few), and is highly regarded by those that have been so lucky to have worked with him. I would have never imagined he would be this comfortable with feelings, and even more, be among the best to help others process feelings.
I no longer have perpetual negative thoughts or suspicious questions. He has earned my trust, and I can rely on him as my husband and as father to our son. I don’t have the fears or insecurities I use to have, so my nagging retired long ago. I know I can safely bring up a concern.
Now our daily life is peaceful, relaxed, with laughter, and lots of patience! Parenting isn’t easy, concerns still arise, and conflict is inevitable. Now we know how to reduce it, handle it, and keep our mental health.
Despite all the popular advice, I didn’t have to use secret tricks, play hard to get, or change who I am (or even my husband).
Most importantly, I’m grateful to have a loving partnership personally for our son to be in a safe and wholesome environment. Where he feels safe and comfortable to share his feelings and reach his full potential without any family concerns that may hinder his development.
On a professional level, I’m grateful to be able to connect couples with their healthy side they didn’t know how to discover.
I do not share this to boast. I share this to explain to you that:
- I understand where you are and where you want to be.
- I know what it takes and I can make it very simple by guiding you.
And the best part is you don’t need to convince your partner to join you in the coaching session. You can do it yourself.
Many couples wait because one of them doesn’t think they need any outside guidance or that they have any contribution to the problem. But when we wait, we continue in this lonely dance when we can change that. NOW.
How does the private coaching work?
When coached through a difficult issue consistently to the point of habit, then the response to conflict, even hot topics, are set in a new default. Therefore, the end result is also a new one.
For example, after a addressing a conflict in a healthy way:
- Your feelings of fear, being hurt or vengefulness have lessened
- There’s a solution
- You learned more about your partner’s feelings
- There has been mutual good influence
- You trust in your partner’s goodwill
- You make effort to undo the harm you may have caused on your part
- You feel closer and better about your relationship
During the private session, the focus is entirely on you and your needs! I personally will guide you to overcome any obstacles you are currently facing in your relationship.
Who is this for?
The private coaching is for those that are brave to make a change, understand they are valuable and worth it, and:
- You’re partner doesn’t think there is a problem or you both want to give this a try
- You’ve tried therapists, lay counselors, self-help books, etc., and you don’t feel less despair, just temporary fixes
- Your daily interactions as a couple aren’t the loving interactions you once had, or would like to have
- You want to work on the relationship—not just settle
- You are certain that my expertise is right for you
- You are ready to clean out the rug and live in a sanctuary that you deserve—not waste another day living with a burden of the past
Who is this NOT for?
This is not for people who see themselves in a perfect relationship, are convinced there is nothing to work on, and:
- Believe you are perfect without any flaws—only your partner has flaws
- Don’t think anything will help and blame outside causes for your problems
- You’re not really sure you want to stay in the relationship—you’re not committed anymore
- You’re unwilling to invest time and apply what you learned when not on the call
There are many ways you can schedule your sessions. After your purchase, I will email you personally to set up our first call. I will ask for 3 different times that work best for you and I will fit into one. You have 6 months, from the date of purchase, to use all your sessions. Sessions are to be scheduled at least one week apart and cancelled/rescheduled at least 24 hours prior to the scheduled session.
- Receive a free surprise gift in the mail after your first session
- Free email support from me for any questions you may have
- Receive free supporting materials via email
*For payment plans see FAQs below.
The private coaching service is non-refundable. You have 6 months to use your session(s) from the day of purchase. We hope you make a wise and thought out decision. Please consider, the charge from your phone carrier is not included in the price.
Frequently Asked Questions
We can offer a payment plan when requested. Write to firstname.lastname@example.org with a choice below. Keep in mind that a session will be scheduled once the payment has already gone through.
- The Month Package: 2 payments of $349.50 (payments made biweekly)
- The Full Package: 4 payments of $349.75 (payments made biweekly) OR 2 payments of $699.50 (payments made monthly)
It is different for each individual or couple. I adapt evidence-based approaches to meet your needs and overcome any obstacles that are inhibiting intimacy or pleasure in your relationship.
Absolutely! It’s extremely common for one partner to feel reluctant about getting help, or simply doesn’t find the need for it. But that isn’t enough reason to delay. If you are in pain, or have concerns, then it DOES need to be addressed. Ignoring open wounds won’t let them heal on their own. There is a lot we can do, you’ll be surprised!
Of course! Soy bilingüe y he dado muchisimas clases en Español.
Alfred is only taking a few clients, as he is completing his dissertation. If you prefer to be coached by him, before you purchase, please send an email to email@example.com with the package you would be buying, the times and days that you would prefer to have the sessions and your full name as written on the card you will be using to purchase (to later match). We will let you know within 48 hours if we can make that happen and once you purchase, you’re session(s) will be locked in.
No way! You are free to schedule you sessions through the course of 6 months. Regardless of the package you purchased. However, we don’t give sessions closer than a week apart. So if you wanted to use all your 4 sessions right away, it would take 4 weeks.
You can add another package. If you purchased 1, you can add the month package, for a total of 5 sessions. We do not offer upgrades at this time.
This is a non-refundable service. We trust that your decision will be well thought out.
I understand things can come up and know that our time (yours and mine) is valuable. I ask for your consideration when scheduling a session. The kids are at school, in bed, or with a sitter. The people committing to the session aren’t on call for work or have any other pressing issues that might cause them to leave early. Notify me 24 hours before our call if you need to cancel. Keep in mind, the sessions are non-refundable and can be used anytime within 6 months from the day of purchase.
Email us at firstname.lastname@example.org and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can.
*For payment plans see FAQs above.