Being in a committed relationship doesn't mean boring or unexciting.
long-term relationships and marriages must be nourished and nurtured.
“Be happy you have someone,” a well-intentioned friend might say.
Which does nothing to help you feel hopeful about the future. You don’t want to disappoint your family or friends if you were to end things. And you know the risks you took to be in this relationship—risks you both took.
Things aren’t terrible, of course.
Sure, it’s embarrassing to admit some personal flaws. But that doesn’t define you or make you any less deserving of love.
You want to return to those romantic days of interest, attraction and fun.
You want to have peace of mind that you're in
a loving and loyal relationship.
Having been married for 17 years—a mother for 16—I know too well the many ways a marriage gets put in the background.
As newlyweds, Alfred and I attended our first class for couples because we wanted help managing our emotions, our differences, and building a relationship that we would both be grateful for.
It wasn’t an easy feat.
We had to retrain our brain from what we learned as kids and stay committed to the practice.
And there’ll be times that challenge us today, and we still revisit the skills.
Throughout our marriage, we’ve lived in 3 different countries (1 year in Mexico, 5 years in England, and a couple states in America) and have experienced many stages and challenges that life throws at us.
Thanks to what we learned in 2006, we set on a journey of being permanent students of relationship science.
Since then, we’ve been certified, got an education and have taught hundreds of couples for over a decade.
It's been rewarding helping couples that are where I was in my marriage.
I know exactly the pain and wishes you have. And I know how to get to where you want to be.
I want you to feel comfortable and at ease when having deep conversations with your partner.
Life is busy, and time flies by. We’re not getting any younger, and we don’t want to feel like things are too late. But…
IT’S NOT TOO LATE.
In fact. You’re where you’re meant to be.
this is education. not therapy.
What I offer is education.
We are evolving humans and a work-in-progress, meant to be students for life. Our emotional well-being depends on it.
Relationship Education can be stand-alone or complementary to your therapy sessions. We have therapists refer couples to our services to learn skills outside of therapy. In group classes, you meet other couples with the same goals.
Education is a journey. If it’s not enjoyable, you will not stay on track. Having fun growing together with your partner should be one of your objectives.
For this reason, I co-founded Love Savvy Club in 2016.
Love Savvy Club is an online resource that supports you to have a loyal and loving relationship.
Alfred and I wanted couples to have a reliable source of information and education—a resource that’s helpful and research-based, aka proven to work.
“Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light.”